Playing Catch Up

20 Feb

My son was born prematurely at 31.5 weeks, while his lungs were not quite ready…the rest of him was perfectly developed and just about the size of every other full term baby.  He weighed in at 6lbs 1oz, 10 fingers and 10 toes and was as perfect as could be!

The first 18 days of his life were spent in the NICU and my husband and I barely got any rest.  We worried so much about our baby boy.  Luckily there were no complications and as soon as he learned to eat from a bottle, we were able to take our baby home.

I’m an accountant and this is the time of year when I get to see all of my clients and a bunch of them happened to have babies around the same time I had mine.  All of their children are walking  running, climbing and talking, but my baby hasn’t even started walking yet…he doesn’t even stand up on his own without holding onto something. I have to admit that sometimes I work myself into a mental frenzy worrying that something is wrong.  My pediatrician assures me that there is absolutely nothing wrong with my son and that I need to quit worrying and just enjoy every stage he goes through for its entirety…even if it lasts longer than other kids his age.

I will admit that since he was born, I’ve had a developmental growth chart that I have been checking and I feel like we’ve been playing catch up since he was born.  Well, when I get home today I’m throwing that chart away and the next time a mother looks down her nose at me as if I’m doing something wrong because he isn’t walking yet…well, I might just punch her in the throat!  My son is amazing, perfect and the biggest blessing of my life…he’ll walk when he’s good and ready!

 

Christmas Gift Idea for Daycare

19 Dec

My baby is one year old and recently started daycare.  I saw that his teacher put stockings up for the kids the other day and I thought I should bring something in to put in them.

What do you give a one year old? Over-analyzing this situation as I do most situations, I instantly think that if I give them a food item they may choke or have food allergies or if I give them a small toy they could choke on that as well and if I give them a large toy I will go broke…hmmm what to do?!?!

While at the dollar store, I found Elmo board books 2 for $1…perfect! I created a tag on Publisher, punched holes in the tags and slapped a ribbon on them…this is a cute, perfect gift for daycare aged children if I do say so myself!

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What kind of Elf mom are you?

17 Dec

So I know I am totally late on this whole elf on the shelf craze, but I finally decided that our family could not possibly live without an elf.  My son is only one and would probably rather chew on the elf than wake up in the morning to see what mischievous pranks the elf has pulled off.  I stumbled upon a 30% discount code for bookworm.com and so I ended getting my elf for the bargain price of $20.96…so I could not pass it up. I figured if anything at least I would have it for next year when he might be a little more intrigued by the elf.

I follow a lot of blogs and I have found there are several different opinions on “The Elf”.

The mom that doesn’t do the whole elf thing.  Like I said earlier, until this year, I did not have the slightest interest in the elf, but I also did not have a child.  Some moms out there in the blog world feel that their children are so perfectly well-behaved that they do not need an elf living in the home with them to report back to santa (don’t tell anyone but no child is perfectly well-behaved).  Other moms say that their children believe in Jesus…no need for an elf…Hello people, your child can have an elf and believe in Jesus too…my child will. Then there are the moms that have better things to spend $30 on…these moms I can understand.

The lazy elf mom. This mom was most likely given an elf as a gift.  This mom has no desire to really own an elf and consider it to be a huge success just to move the elf each night.

The elf mom with good intentions. This mom bought the elf with every intention of showing up the other moms that have posted photos of their elves on Facebook, twitter and pinterest. While she has good intentions, she cannot bring herself to throwing marshmallows or flour all over her house, or bake cookies after the kids have gone to bed. This mom actually would just rather her elf came to life and cleaned her house and did all of her laundry for her.

The classic overachiever elf mom. This mom spends hours planning out and executing over the top activities for her elf.  This mom makes flour and marshmallow messes, turns her elf into spiderman so that she can hang him from the ceiling, toilet papers the entire Christmas tree, creates an elf sized hot air balloon and removes all the ornaments from the tree only to have to put them back on the next day. These and other over the top activities guarantee that her babies will have the merriest of Christmases. You can almost be sure that this mom has extra elves in storage so that she can pass one on to each of her children so that they can create their own special memories with their kids one day. This my friends is the elf mom that I will aspire to be…once my kid is old enough to realize that the elf actually moved…in the meantime I will be the mom who simply leaves her elf on the fireplace mantle and sits on the couch sipping on wine and catching up on my DVR.

For those of you that are contemplating welcoming this little mischievous stranger into your home for the holidays, there is an Amazon deal for the next four days which gives you $25 to spend at Bookworm.com (where I purchased my elf) for $12.  You could use this deal to purchase The Elf on the Shelf or any other books for that matter, either way this deal is too good to pass on!

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You can also get 30% off your first order  (up to 3 books) at Bookworm.com by using the discount code bookworm30.

Below are photos with some ideas for Elf on the Shelf activities.  Some I found online and others are my friends’ handy work. Check them out and comment if you’d like. I’d love to hear other creative ideas that my elf could do…for next year of course.

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North Pole 500

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Fishing

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Snowball Fight

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Trapped in the room

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Elf takes a sick day

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Snow Angels

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Elf plays Angry Birds

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Late Night Snack

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Elf builds a tree house

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Hot Air Balloon

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Christmas Shopping Checklist

29 Nov

While I am all about technology and gadgets, I can’t seem to get away from a paper Christmas shopping list. I tried downloading a couple different apps and still I find myself with a hundred sticky notes in my purse with the names of people I need to shop for. So I decided to create my own little masterpiece that I could print out and carry along with me for this holiday shopping season. I liked it so much I thought I would share. Click Here

Free Christmas Card Template & Timeline Cover

15 Nov

While browsing the web for Christmas card ideas I stumbled upon a really cute (and free) christmas card template from Photo Card Boutique.

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** In order to access this freebie, you must “like” their facebook page. **

Mickey Mouse Centerpieces

13 Nov

In the hunt for cute DIY Mickey mouse centerpieces for my sons birthday I will be honest I didn’t really find anything out there that I liked…so I ventured out to design my very own.

I found really cute Mickey cups at Walgreens for $1. I picked some up because I figured they would make a good base.

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I then filled the cups with foam which I cut to fit the cups. The foam I purchased at hobby lobby for $3.00 after using this 40% coupon .

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Once I had the foam in the cup, I cut 6″ squares out of red and black tissue paper.

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If you layer two squares of tissue paper and pinch and twist the middle it will make a flower like shape. You then take the twisted end and using a skewer force the tissue paper into the foam. I also placed a small amount if hot glue for additional reinforcement. I did this all the way around the cup leaving the center empty.

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I purchased done wooden dowels at Walmart, painted them black, then hot glued a 2 sided Mickey decoration which I also purchased at Walmart. I placed the wooden dowel in the very center of the cup. I made rice crispy treats, cut them with a Mickey cookie cutter, and stuck a lollipop stick in them…and voila…I had my centerpieces. Each centerpiece cost roughly $2.15 to make.

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You could probably add a couple more rice crispy treats to each one,but I wanted to keep it simple.

Mickey Mouse Goody Bag & Giveaway

15 Oct

Where has the last year gone? With my son’s first birthday less than a month away, clearly its time to start crafting! The first project that I decided to attempt was the goody bags. I could have gone to the store and gotten just any goody bag that every other kid has had at their mickey mouse birthday, but no, not me….Of course I have to make my own!  I will admit it was time-consuming, but so worth it! I love the finished product and I hope you will too.

I gathered all the items I would need:

I bought all of the items at Joann Fabrics using their 40% & 50% off coupons which helped save me a lot of money and then I got to work.  The first thing I did was to paper punch all the ovals and circles I was going to need as well as cut the black rectangle for the top of the bag.  Once everything was cut I went through and glued all the white “buttons” on each bag.

Then I went through and glued the black rectangle to the top of each bag.

Next came the black circle “ears”.

Then I stuffed them full with Mickey Mouse goodies and candy, added a piece of tissue paper and voila…

We have custom Mickey Mouse goody bags!

Like I said before this was a time-consuming project, but I feel it was time well spent.

I want to help someone save some time and money by giving away enough ears, buttons and rectangles to make two dozen goody bags. All you will have to do is buy the red gift bags and glue everything on.  To enter to win all you have to do is “follow” my blog and leave a comment below with your favorite birthday party decoration, game or party food.  The winner will be picked at random on October 31st.

THAT Mom

26 Sep

Don’t you just hate those moms that are constantly talking about their children…My baby just got his first tooth, my baby started walking, my baby is so cute, my baby, my baby, my baby…

Well, I have become THAT mom!

Yesterday as I entered my son into a Halloween photo contest and shared the link on my Facebook page, I suddenly realized that I had become THAT mom, you know, the one that floods your news feed with pictures of her kid and links asking you to vote for them in a contest they most likely won’t win. Campaigning for my son as if he were running for president. Harassing people by texting and calling them…yep its official…I’m that annoying mom that is so in love with her kid that she’ll scream it from the mountaintops (or just post it all over Facebook).

I’m a proud mom and my son is the biggest blessing I have ever had in my life! If my posts annoy you…unfriend me! If you don’t want to vote for my son…don’t…then I’ll unfriend you.

I now understand and can relate to all these moms that are constantly posting about how perfect and cute their kids are…I can relate, because my son is one of the perfect, cute kids.

Now tell me that face shouldn’t win this photo contest!?!?

Lastnight I “slept like a baby”

18 Sep

Whoever coined the phrase “sleep like a baby” was a delusional asshole who either never had a baby or only had experience with narcoleptic babies…or maybe it was just a man, since they are almost all blessed with the super power of being able to block out baby cries in the middle of the night.  Either way, whoever it was, never met my little man!

You can stock up on diapers, baby clothes, toys, parenting guides, strollers, pacifiers, bottles, and car-seats: but how are you supposed to prepare for imminent sleep-deprivation? My son is now 10 months old and I can count on my two hands the number of times that he has slept through the night and on those nights I’m so worried that something is wrong with him that I barely get any sleep. Since he was born he has always been an extremely light sleeper, so much so that I’m pretty sure the sneeze of a butterfly would wake him, now throw in the fact that he is teething and its a recipe for cranky, sleepless, crying nights…for the both of us.

Since my son was born, he has proved that he is of a superior class of humanity that can stay away for days on end with no need for sleep (or at least it SEEMS like days on end).   Since the hubby and I are not of this same class of super human, we need sleep. Lots of it.

This is probably one of the very few times that I will actually solicit advise from anyone on how to raise my child…what has worked for all you parents out there, what are you doing to get your infant to sleep through the night? Or any suggestions to help with the teething?

Remembering 9/11

11 Sep

Praying for everyone who lost loved ones on September 11th. Let the people you love know that you love them…tomorrow is promised to no one.

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